Anonymous asked: So I am a freshmen in college, and was wondering how to connect with people without drinking,smoking,drugs, etc. I am outgoing sometimes, but once unsure have a low self-esteem. Thanks so much for your time!

i would recommend coffee shops (a great place for finding humans!), going to shows/seeing bands you like. 

venture out solo and participate in activities that interest you, so that you’re putting yourself in a situation where you’re likely to meet strangers with similar interests.  

also, if you’ve just started college, seek out information about all the clubs on your campus! same as above, follow your interests and you will have the opportunity to meet others who share them. maybe a dancing class or club? that’s a superb way to meet lots of people, plus you get to learn how to move your body, and that is such a great way to build your self-esteem!